Birthday Vlog ? How I Feel About Turning 30 !! [Video]

0:01 | [Music]

0:05 | hey everyone it’s Paige and welcome back

0:07 | to my YouTube channel I haven’t done a

0:09 | sit down video in a little bit so I

0:10 | thought this would be fun I turned 30.

0:13 | yeah the big 3-0 the dirty 30 and I’m

0:18 | excited about it I feel like at this

0:20 | point in my life

0:21 | I’ve really comments my own this is the

0:24 | most confident and sexy and fearless

0:27 | that I’ve ever felt in my entire life

0:31 | and I can’t wait for my 30s I think

0:34 | women are afraid to talk about their age

0:37 | because people talk about women when

0:39 | they get a little bit well past past 25

0:43 | really that they have a shelf life and

0:46 | they they talk about us like we’re

0:48 | expired milk and that’s just not true I

0:51 | feel like I’m not expired milk I’m wine

0:54 | and I just keep getting better and

0:56 | better and better as the years go on and

0:59 | I know I’m not wise I’m still young I’m

1:03 | 30 years old and that is a baby in the

1:06 | grand scheme of life but

1:09 | still I wanted to share five things that

1:13 | I have learned so far by the age of 30.

1:17 | number one it’s okay to not know what

1:20 | you’re doing with your life there were

1:22 | so many times in my life that I didn’t

1:24 | know what direction I was going in what

1:27 | my purpose was what I wanted to do and

1:30 | there’s a running joke in my family like

1:32 | oh no what’s wrong with Paige now I had

1:34 | a very unconventional upbringing where

1:38 | I had health issues like I had a hair

1:42 | condition and Asthma and emotional

1:44 | issues and my parents were constantly

1:46 | worried about me when I was little and

1:49 | then I got into gymnastics they’re like

1:50 | maybe she found her thing maybe this is

1:52 | it nope

1:54 | that wasn’t it

1:56 | the girls and they’re like okay maybe

1:57 | this is her purpose and I showed promise

2:00 | for a while but then I got into college

2:02 | and those emotional issues came back and

2:04 | I lost my passion for golf and there was

2:06 | no clear Direction I had no idea what I

2:08 | wanted to do and I remember my dad

2:12 | sitting me down just being like well

2:14 | what do you want to do with your life

2:17 | and I’m like I don’t I don’t know I I

2:20 | could be a coach a golf coach I love

2:22 | golf instruction and that’s something

2:25 | that I’m I’m passionate about I could do

2:26 | that

2:28 | and I’ve always walked to the Beat of My

2:30 | Own Drum and I think I struggled so much

2:33 | because a conventional way of life

2:35 | didn’t fit who I was as a person and it

2:40 | was so hard and difficult on me because

2:42 | it’s like you’re trying to put a square

2:45 | peg in a round hole it’s just not going

2:47 | to fit and I’m sure that hand movement

2:50 | is going to cause all these comments and

2:52 | I I see I always set myself up for stuff

2:54 | like this anyways you guys get the point

2:56 | it’s like fitting a square peg and a

2:58 | round hole it’s just not going to work

3:00 | and so I was just struggling and

3:02 | struggling and I just

3:05 | had to figure it out and I did and I

3:09 | ended up kind of falling into what I was

3:11 | doing now but this is exactly what I

3:13 | should be doing and it just shows you

3:15 | that if there isn’t a clear path for you

3:18 | make your own path

3:20 | build your own career and that’s what I

3:22 | did that this golf influencer wasn’t a

3:25 | thing I created it I built it and now

3:28 | it’s really cool to see all of these

3:30 | especially women coming up now following

3:33 | exactly what I’m doing step by step by

3:35 | step and it’s laid out perfectly for

3:38 | them to be successful but for me I was

3:40 | like what do I do now let’s do this

3:43 | let’s do this let’s do this I don’t know

3:45 | and I had to figure it out as I was

3:47 | going but it ended up working out and so

3:49 | be patient

3:51 | understand that you know life is

3:52 | difficult there’s tons of twists and

3:54 | turns and ups and downs and find what

3:57 | your purpose is and what makes you happy

3:59 | also just what is your purpose when I

4:02 | first started doing this I was had these

4:04 | Grand ideas if I wanted to change the

4:06 | game and all of these things and I woke

4:08 | up and I had so much pressure on me and

4:10 | I’m like why I’m doing this to myself

4:12 | I’m putting so much pressure on myself

4:14 | and it doesn’t matter what makes you

4:16 | happy to me it was making silly videos

4:18 | fun videos that made other people smile

4:20 | that’s what I wanted to do so trust

4:22 | yourself trust your instincts and it

4:25 | does always work out just trust yourself

4:27 | number two is quality over quantity when

4:31 | it comes to friends I remember it’s like

4:34 | how many friends do you have and

4:36 | um trying to be as popular as you

4:38 | possibly can be I didn’t have to worry

4:40 | about that too much because I was

4:41 | homeschooled and so my lady friend was

4:43 | my mother and now I only have like a

4:46 | handful of friends who really really

4:48 | know me and who I have let in I think

4:51 | that’s okay you don’t have to have a ton

4:53 | of friends and if you do have a ton of

4:54 | friends great more power to you but

4:56 | that’s just not something that really

4:57 | worked for me especially with the life

5:00 | that I live now it’s really hard to stay

5:02 | connected and be a really great friend

5:04 | with how busy I am and so I really try

5:06 | to prioritize my friendships now and I I

5:09 | couldn’t do it with a ton of people and

5:11 | so you just friends just walk away and

5:13 | you just can’t keep that connection as

5:16 | much and so I really tried to focus on

5:18 | the quality friends that I do have and

5:20 | make sure that they’re always a priority

5:22 | in my life and you also don’t want to

5:25 | have people in your life that bring you

5:26 | down you should only have people in your

5:27 | life that lift you up and want the best

5:29 | for you and there’s so many times that

5:31 | you keep friendships around because

5:32 | you’ve known them for a long time or

5:34 | whatever reason it may be but they don’t

5:36 | fulfill you and they don’t help you grow

5:40 | as a person they’re not there for you

5:42 | and those are people you just don’t want

5:43 | in your life whether that’s

5:44 | relationships or friendships those

5:47 | people are negative and you don’t you

5:50 | don’t have time for that and so I know

5:52 | it’s hard to walk away but you’re gonna

5:54 | be so much happier when you do that and

5:56 | you do take that jump to only have

5:58 | quality friends in your life who make

6:01 | you a better person and it doesn’t also

6:03 | mean having yes men in your life I think

6:05 | one reason I have been so successful for

6:09 | such a long time in this brutal industry

6:11 | that I’m in is because I don’t have

6:13 | people who just say yes to everything

6:15 | and they make me question and think and

6:18 | they challenge me and they push me and

6:22 | that is so important too to have friends

6:24 | who can keep you humble and to question

6:26 | you and to always push you to be a

6:28 | better person as well and so finding

6:31 | your core group is so incredibly

6:33 | important when you do make sure that you

6:34 | prioritize them number three

6:37 | stop complaining

6:39 | I used to complain about things all the

6:41 | time and I thought it would make me feel

6:43 | better and it never made me feel better

6:44 | just made me feel worse and I got so

6:47 | sick of complaining about things when

6:49 | there were things that I could change

6:51 | and so I’m really trying now to not

6:54 | complain as much and to focus on things

6:57 | in my life that are good and positive

7:00 | and also if there is a problem in my

7:02 | life how can I change it and to look at

7:04 | it in a logical way okay this is making

7:09 | me unhappy here are the four or five

7:11 | steps One Step that I need to do to

7:13 | change my life or to do this or to that

7:15 | I can always sit here and wonder and

7:17 | feel bad for ourselves and there’s

7:18 | definitely time for that because life is

7:20 | really hard and it kicks you down

7:22 | constantly and so you can have a minute

7:25 | or five minutes to yourself to feel

7:26 | sorry for you and what’s going on in

7:29 | your life but get up

7:32 | think through it how can I make a change

7:34 | what can I do to be a better person and

7:38 | to change what I’m doing for me it was

7:40 | therapy I was making decisions in my

7:42 | life because of either unresolved trauma

7:45 | or I was just doing things to cause more

7:48 | issues for myself you know the list goes

7:51 | on and on and on we don’t need to get

7:52 | into that today because I want to be

7:54 | more positive but for me it was healing

7:58 | myself and going to therapy and that

8:00 | really helped me with a couple things

8:03 | and then once those things came into

8:04 | into place and other things in my life

8:06 | started to come into place and most of

8:09 | the time we do it to ourselves and you

8:11 | can complain about well maybe you want

8:13 | to be healthier well that’s that’s a

8:15 | change you can make you know and you can

8:17 | or maybe you want to drink less well you

8:20 | know there are steps or things that you

8:22 | can do to achieve that sometimes they’re

8:24 | really really difficult and sometimes

8:26 | they’re easy it really just depends it

8:28 | could be as easy as

8:30 | feeling better in the morning making

8:32 | your bed going for a walk prioritizing

8:34 | your self-care again

8:37 | we can make these changes in our life

8:39 | and we can feel sorry for ourselves too

8:42 | but spending less time complaining and

8:44 | more time being proactive and really

8:46 | thinking through how can I make my life

8:48 | better has made me a much happier person

8:50 | and trust me there are days when this is

8:53 | not easy and I just want to lay in bed

8:55 | and feel sorry for myself because life

8:58 | is shitty

9:00 | but you just get in a bad routine of

9:04 | doing that constantly day in and day out

9:07 | and this goes back to number two of

9:09 | having good people in your life and good

9:11 | friends and a support system to help you

9:14 | um make really positive changes and

9:16 | become a better person because I know

9:18 | when I am doing things in my life that I

9:20 | know I should be doing I am so much

9:22 | happier instead of doing things that I

9:25 | know I shouldn’t be doing and then

9:26 | dealing with the consequences and then

9:27 | complaining about it it’s like it starts

9:29 | with me and I can change it so that’s

9:32 | been something that I’m really working

9:33 | on that has drastically changed my life

9:35 | number four it is okay paid to fail

9:39 | I get the question a lot like what is

9:41 | your biggest regret in life nothing

9:42 | every time that I have failed has been

9:45 | the biggest stepping stone in my life

9:47 | every mistake that I’ve made I have

9:49 | grown and I’ve learned from it and it’s

9:52 | been the biggest Catalyst within my

9:54 | career the times where I’ve been my most

9:57 | unhappy and then I have failed publicly

10:00 | I’ve had the biggest growths in my

10:03 | career and it’s because I’m trying to do

10:05 | different things and I’m pushing myself

10:07 | and I’m challenging myself it’s easy to

10:09 | stay consistent when you’re doing the

10:11 | same thing every single day but you’re

10:12 | not going to have much growth doing that

10:14 | and so it’s pushing yourself and knowing

10:17 | that you might fail but then learning

10:19 | from that failure and knowing how can I

10:21 | change it how can I fix it I’ve tried to

10:23 | incorporate that into my personal life

10:25 | and also into my business career and

10:29 | again it’s okay to fail you should be

10:31 | failing you should be pushing yourself

10:33 | and you should be doing things that are

10:34 | scary there are so many things

10:36 | throughout the year that I’m like

10:38 | dreading doing because I’m nervous about

10:41 | it because I’m nervous I’m gonna fail or

10:43 | I’m nervous about what the outcome is

10:44 | going to be and every time it’s over I’m

10:46 | always like I’m so glad I did that I’m

10:48 | so glad I pushed myself I’m so glad I

10:51 | took that step which was scary and not

10:53 | fun and I did it and whether it was

10:55 | successful or not I either learned

10:57 | something from it or I was so happy that

10:59 | I did it and so it’s push yourself fail

11:02 | keep challenging yourself keep pushing

11:05 | forward because that’s when you’re going

11:06 | to see the biggest growth in your life

11:08 | number five

11:10 | should be fun relationships should be

11:13 | fun uh work should be fun everything in

11:16 | your life should be fun and of course

11:17 | there is going to be times in your life

11:20 | that it’s not fun at all but if you

11:23 | don’t have that then you’re never going

11:25 | to get through the really hard times and

11:28 | laughing in a relationship I didn’t know

11:30 | that was a thing like I didn’t know that

11:32 | you should have that much fun in

11:33 | relationships and it can happen and it

11:35 | should happen and and work too there’s

11:37 | so many times where I wake up and I’m

11:38 | like I’m so excited for today I cannot

11:41 | wait to get out there and do something

11:43 | and try something different and I’m

11:45 | always pushing myself and at the core of

11:48 | it is just fun and being excited and you

11:52 | can make that change and you can cater

11:55 | your life around what makes you happy I

11:57 | think we get so stuck in these ruts and

11:59 | doing the same thing over and over and

12:00 | over again

12:02 | um and and you just feel like that’s

12:04 | what life should be I used to get that a

12:06 | lot well it’s just what life is you know

12:09 | like people argue that’s just life and

12:12 | you know everyone hates their job that’s

12:13 | just life no it’s not you can live a

12:17 | life where there’s a lot of joy and

12:18 | excitement and fun and you can push

12:22 | yourself to do that and you can make

12:23 | changes and there might be sacrifices in

12:26 | other areas of your life but at the core

12:28 | of it you should have so much fun doing

12:30 | what you’re doing and I am finally at

12:33 | this point in my life having so much fun

12:35 | and being passionate about what I do and

12:38 | every aspect of my life

12:40 | I’m feeling confident and comfortable in

12:43 | my own skin and I’m so excited for 30

12:46 | but I’m still a union I’m a little baby

12:49 | still so I want to hear from you guys so

12:51 | drop some life advice for me or

12:54 | whoever’s watching this video down below

12:56 | in the comments I want to hear from you

12:57 | what is something that you’ve learned or

12:59 | something that I have let out maybe this

13:01 | is a very naive look at the world and

13:04 | it’s because I am still so young and

13:06 | maybe I’ll do a video in 10 years in 20

13:08 | years and look back on the things that I

13:10 | said and been like I can’t believe I

13:12 | just said that your episode Down page

13:13 | right

13:14 | share some of your Insight with me so

13:17 | comment down below I hope you guys like

13:18 | this video and don’t forget to subscribe

13:21 | to my channel I have so much fun stuff

13:22 | coming and in the works and I can’t wait

13:25 | to uh to share it all with you so that

13:28 | is all for today bye guys

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